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I could write a letter to shoes expressing how much I miss them and love them.  I have three pairs of shoes with me on this trip – a pair of whack flip flops, some dirty Toms and a pair of hiking boots. Sometimes, I just Google Image “shoes” to see all the different kinds and options.  

Here are a few of my favorite looks:

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I cannot wait until I am reunited with my shoes upon my return home!

So, I think I’ve taken a turn a bit on this trip.  I am yearning for some more meaningful experiences.

(photo via Google Image)

The “backpacker circuit” is wonderful and great, but I am also finding that it does not quite suit me. I think in some ways I am a bit too old to be considered the ideal Lonely Planet backpacker.  At first, the party places and the must-do’s seemed appealing.  However, as time has passed, they are not at all what I am looking for.  While in some ways, I am not even certain what I am looking for, I do know that I am craving more authentic ways to connect with the people in the places I am.  Maybe some retreats, classes and volunteering are in the near future.

In the mean time, I read this article on traveling on NPR and felt inspired.

I would love to hear any suggestions or tips you have on ways to deepen my experience and make it more meaningful. Please feel free to comment below or email me.

Every week, as part of our One Word, Two Ways series, we pick a word and each base a post off that word.  This week, the word is Smile.

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This used to be the background picture on my computer. I was going through a pretty hard time and looking for pick-me-ups wherever I could find them. I just can’t look at the grin on this man’s face without cracking up a little and immediately feeling my mood improve

(Photo via here)

I have noticed lately that I can sometimes be a jerk to strangers. I think it is a mixture of living in NYC and being tired of people hustling me.  On our trip, people are always staring at me and on a bad day, your Insecurities can really get the best of you.  At times, I find myself feeling defensive and glaring back.

But since arriving in Cambodia, I have taken a new approach which is making me infinitely happier.  I constantly smile.  At first it can feel like a cheesy thing, but it always leaves me genuinely smiling.  I have ended up talking to more people and having better days because of it.

Instead of ignoring people asking you if you want to buy something every second, just looking them in the eyes and smile.  Annie was right when she said, “You are never fully dressed without a smile.”  The days will feel brighter because you did.

After saying goodbye to Thailand, we have arrived safely in Cambodia. I can’t wait to tell you more about it but in the meantime, a few more things we have learned along the way:

(World Travel Journal via Paperfetish Etsy Shop)

~ No matter how much you prepare for something, it never goes as planned.

~ It’s hard to ask for help.

~ Always trust your instincts.

~ Don’t skimp on the neccessities.

~ Be honest with yourself about your weaknesses.

~ If you don’t like where you are, change it.

We pick a word each week and both base a post off that word.  Check out the whole series here.  This week’s word is Refresh.


There is an unspeakable freedom about being on a trip like this.  Any moment when you want a change, you can just refresh.  It feels like those old view master cameras where you change the image by pulling the lever.   If you don’t like where you are, change it.  It is a lesson that I hope stays with me forever.

(The View. Unfamiliar Objects Print Series by Kevin Tong)

(Mint infused ice cubes for inside out mojitos found here)

Yesterday I read somewhere that if you use boiling water to make ice cubes they will turn out clear, absent of the cloudiness that most ice has. While I can’t say I’ve ever been particularly aware of, or have ever even cared about the cloudiness of ice cubes, I found this to be an interesting tit bit nonetheless. All this thinking about ice got me to thinking about how refreshing infused ice cubes could make an otherwise pedestrian beverage. Luckily for all of us, Pinterest is unsurprisingly full of beautiful images for inspiration. I think I’m going to give it a try.

(Image found here)

(Mint infused ice cubes for inside out mojitos found here)

(Five more mouthwatering recipes via Brit + Co)

Sharks Bay, Koh Tao

We have been in Thailand for three weeks now and it’s been a beautiful whirlwind of island hopping.  As you know, we started off in Railay Beach and island hopped through the three main islands in the Gulf of Thailand. It was as awesome as it sounds. We stayed in this tiny bungalow on Bottle Beach in Ko Phangan for a week while reading (Shantaram is an amazing book), eating (not me, the food has been making me sick), swimming and watching storms roll in day after day.

Ko Tao (turtle island).


View from our bungalow in Bottle Beach, Ko Phangan


Bottle Beach, Ko Phangan. My favorite place so far.

After a couple weeks on the islands, we headed to Bangkok to sort out our Indian visas.  It’s pretty crazy here, with chaotic transit system.

Public ferry transit.

And shopping malls are impressive.

We are getting eager to head to Vietnam and Cambodia from here. But before then, how cute are these?!

To my wonderful friends who love food – love the smell, the sight and the taste of it, the food is wonderful and vibrant here in Thailand.

Take a look at some things we have been eating:

Watermelon Shake

Pad Thai

Lychees

Tum yum soup

Fried Rice with Sausage

Every week we choose a word and each do a post based on that word.  This week’s word is New.

(image of Thai motor-tricycle driver found here)

I got to choose this week’s word and the word I wanted to choose was New. Mostly because of all the new things that I have been doing. Everything is fun when it is new. A pair of new shoes, a new love, a new perspective, a new interest. The list goes on and on. This week I have realized that sometimes when things are new they can also be scary, intimidating and confusing.  I’m finding the combination of all these things is what makes the natural balance and rhythm of life.


Check out these collages of old and new Hollywood icons merged together by George Chamoun. They almost come off like an optical illusion. Who do you see first, the old or the new?





Manhattan

(photo via Flickr)

I desperately miss New York.  I can’t believe I am saying this, as I spent the last year cursing all the things I hated about it.  I think most of that was to psych myself up to leave that grand city.  New York was my home – the place where my lovely bedroom was and all my wonderful friends are.  Sure, I didn’t see them as often as I wish; that’s the way the city life goes.  Sometimes months would pass without a word from a friend.  It’s a wonder that you actually make real friends in NYC, given how fast time flies in that wonderful city.

Mostly, I miss dancing with my friends. I am talking about sweaty, five hour dance sessions in pitch black rooms filled with people letting loose. I have flashes in my mind of certain songs that just brought it out of us some nights.

Here are some songs I hear in my mind when I think about those sweet, sweet New York nights. The kind of nights you sometimes need so badly you can feel it in your bones.

We met Amber and Graham a couple of days after we arrived in Gili Trawangan.  They were the perfect people for us to meet and at just the right time, since they have been traveling the exact route that we are headed on.   They gave us tips about visas, scams, places to stay and to eat, etc.  We also laughed hysterically and had a blast spending time with them. 

Where are you from?

Amber:  Victoria, Canada
Graham:  Newton Hill, Scotland

How long you have been traveling?

For 14 months now. We left Scotland on June 8, 2011 and have been traveling through Southeast Asia ever since.

Favourite place?

Sri Lanka.  The people are some of the most friendly we met during our travels.  Also, the food was amazing and cheap.

Biggest lessons learned?

Amber:  I have learned to let go. I have also realized what home really has to offer.  All the answers are inside, not outside.

Favorite book you’ve read on your travels?

“Shantaram.”  It’s amazing!  It is about an Australian convict who escapes to India.  We literally split the book in half so that we could both read it.

Amber:  “The Art of Happiness” by the Dali Lama was another one of my favorites.

Craziest place you stayed?

We couch surfed most of our way, which saved heaps of money.  Staying at a Polish guy’s apartment in the ghetto of the Philippines was pretty scary.

What’s the first thing you will do when you get home?

Amber:  Eat scallop potatoes and ham.  My favorite!

Graham:  Wear jeans and play with my dog, Nelson.

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We had a great time chilling on the beach with you guys in Gili T.  See you soon!