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Well, my bags are packed and I am ready (ish) to go. We are off to LA for the day and then taking a red-eye to New Zealand. So far, we have 3 nights at a hostel booked. We are planning on spending some time in Auckland, then renting a car and driving to the South Island. After New Zealand we are heading to Sydney to see one of my very best friends! I can not wait! I will be blogging during my travels and keeping you up to date with all my new adventures 🙂 Here goes nothin….

Last month, Farrell and Albert took a trip to “the beach” – the house our grandparents built in Huron, Ohio.  Growing up, we spent a large part of our summers there swimming, riding bikes and playing with our cousins.  The last time I was there, I took a bunch of pictures of the inside of the house, which is so full of its own personality.  To be honest, I feel like I’ve only scratched the surface of capturing the details of this home that every one of our many aunts, uncles and cousins could probably describe – inch by inch – from memory.



*Our grandmother‘s father, Gramp, painted all of these pictures.

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One of the benefits of driving everywhere nowadays has been listening to satellite radio. Time and time again, I end up back in the 60s doing a little twist. Here are a couple of songs I’ve recently heard that I can’t get outta my head.

I recently watched the documentary “Eames: The Architect and The Painter” about the husband and wife design team, Charles and Ray Eames.  It is a fun, touching and inspiring film about how the Eames’ paired up to form a life of creativity and innovation through constantly evolving design.  One of the scenes featured the playful Eames’ animal masks…

…which reminded me of this wild bunch in my own life!

As well as this masked-Picasso photo, which I came upon awhile back.

And then these two works that I absolutely adore.

Bird Mask by Jacqueline Ford

Sculpture by A.J. Fosik

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Every week we ask some friends to send us a picture they took and tell us a little bit about that picture. Here are the photos for this week:

Rachel – Cleveland, Ohio

This rose bush in our yard is almost 100 years old and it’s shaped like Ohio!

Juani – Lakewood, Ohio

David and the kids on the dock.

Looking into a pocket of sea glass.

Rebecca – South Charleston, Ohio

Food spread for a friend’s HS graduation party.

Teddy – Cleveland, Ohio

Off on our PeruFeighan Adventure 2012

I’m quite partial to funky style and truly admire those that rock and own their inner funky.  I’ve been a long time fan of the picture above (via The Sartorialist) because it just expresses so much personality.  I think it conveys a sense of inner freedom and ease.

I also really like a home interior that incorporates some funk and I think the motto below is right on for how it can be achieved.

Manhattan loft of Andi Potankim via YOU ARE THE RIVER


Baile Funk, also called funk carioca, is a Brazilian dance music that originated in the favelas of Rio de Janeiro and is heavily influenced by 1980s Miami Bass music (like 2 Live Crew!) This is some serious party music, where thousands of young people gather together every weekend to shake their asses.

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Also, check out the documentary, Favela on Blast, for a closer look into baile funk.

In addition to Farrell and Albert, a good little chunk of my closest friends and family have also moved out of New York in the past couple of months – a strange phenomena of NYC living.  With the majority of my remaining friends residing in Brooklyn, I’ve had a string of slightly more quiet Manhattan nights than I’ve had over the past couple of years.  But because the warmer months are finally here, I’ve traded in the Netflix for a lot of meandering around the neighborhood.  In the words of Patsy Cline, “I go out walkin’, after midnight…”


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Ain’t it funny how the night moves

(Click on image below to play the song.  You know you can’t resist a little Bob Seger!)

We grew up just down the street from our friend, Sarah, who is now living in NYC and doing really great work in the community health and nutrition field.  We asked her to write a little something on her latest efforts.  Thanks, Sarah!

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My name is Sarah Shaikh, and I manage the NYC Healthy Communities Initiative through Bon Secours NY Health System. Recently, I was awarded funding to tell the story of how America’s large farm and food manufacturing sectors trickle way down to affect the health of seemingly removed urban communities in ways that will result in a shorter life span of our youth compared to our parents. This will be the first reverse trend documented in human history.

My public service announcement (PSA) is called, “Imagine A Child.”

I am a native Clevelander tackling food justice issues affecting the “urban food desert” neighborhoods of Upper Manhattan and the Bronx. Here, most families live in over-crowed public housing as their incomes fall below the federal poverty line. Most residents are either Black or Hispanic – two genetically predisposed populations at high risk for diet-related illnesses. What is not well understood is that “food deserts” are not always desolate places devoid of enough grocery retail. In the case of the NW Bronx and Upper Manhattan, stores are abundant–and calories are abundant– but access to high quality nutritious food is limited. Space is at a premium in NYC, so we rely on local 24-hour corner stores rather than commuting to larger grocery stores in distant communities. As is typical, candy, processed foods, soda, cigarettes, and beer dominate prime shelf space in these stores – leaving little room for fresh produce, lean meats, and whole grains. Companies like Frito-Lay and Coca Cola rent most of the shelves ensuring that their products are always upfront and at eye-level. They also negotiate control of window space so their advertising is always prominent. This aggressive marketing scheme makes it very difficult for the consumer to make good choices. Not only is nutritious food more expensive, but it’s also hidden in dark back aisles and near the dirty floors. As a consequence, our families suffer from the nation’s highest rates of diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and other diet-related illnesses. On the national scale, 23% of our youth are already diabetic or prediabetic, costing us over $120 billion annually in government health care payments. At the same time, my research demonstrates that a majority of local teens are making their own food purchases – mainly in fast food restaurants and corner stores. In short, kids are spending money like adults, but they are not prepared like us….

As a native Clevelander, I still closely follow the community food justice issues of their neighborhoods. My PSA, “Imagine a Child” accurately sums up the experience of NYC youth in corner stores, but the PSA was actually inspired by the story of  9-year-old Cleveland Heights boy removed from his home and placed in protective supervision solely because his mother allowed him to become obese. The press continually questions who is to blame, but the real question is “how do we best heal him?”  To understand this, I took a stab at imagining his experience, then working backwards from that place of hurt to understand what went wrong.  The PSA provides no solutions – just a starting point for educated dialogue. Great solutions already exist in many communities. Some are transferable, many adaptable/replicable. I encourage you to explore what’s already working in your communities, but feel free to reach out to gather ideas from what works in ours at www.bshsi.org/hci.ny and www.facebook.com/BSNY.HCI

Please share the PSA with friends, family, parents, school faculty – anyone. I sincerely hope that you enjoy!

The most daunting task to prepare for our trip is packing.  Oh, packing!  We have had packing meetings, packing lists, packing days and still, our bags are not really packed. How are you supposed to pack for a trip that you have no idea where you will end up?

I ordered this book off Amazon and it has been a saving grace.  Without this book, we would have not gotten our vaccines (some of which are required from one country to the next) or bought traveler’s insurance.

They created a detailed packing list in the book and it has been a lifesaver.  I tell you the most daunting part is having to put together a minimal wardrobe that will be comfortable wherever we go.

There are some odds and ends that we still need to purchase (guitar string?!), but as the days have gone by, I have come to realize that I will have everything I need wheerever I go.

As you know, wedding invitations come flooding in with the warmer months.  After Farrell returned from her friend’s beautiful homemade wedding in Houston, she and I were talking about wedding gift ideas.  I thought I’d take a little poll of some of my married friends to find out about gifts they received that were particularly meaningful, thoughtful, useful, appreciated, memorable and unique.

Overwhelmingly, these brides truly appreciated every gift they received and think of the gift giver whenever they see or use the item.  The strong consensus was to stick to the registry unless you know the couple very well.  Monetary gifts were always quite welcomed and were often more or less prevalent based on the city in which the wedding takes place.  I know from personal experience, in Cleveland more people bring physical gifts to the wedding venue than in NYC, where envelopes are often more common.  The couple’s life stage is also an important consideration.  Obviously, a couple that is a little older and has been living together for some time is likely to have a more complete array of household items than a younger couple just starting out.

Specifically, some of the non-registry gifts mentioned were:

  • Experiential Gifts – these included a night at a bed and breakfast, symphony tickets and helicopter ride during the couple’s honeymoon.
  • Consumable Gifts – such as a membership to a wine/cheese of the month club, a gift certificate to a nice restaurant and a starter collection of spices.
  • Personalized, Monogrammed and Engraved Gifts – etsy.com is great for this and there are more options than I can begin to name.  Many of my friends mentioned heartfelt sayings they received, either engraved on a platter or nicely framed.  One received a beautifully framed heart shape map cutout of where the couple was married.  Another mentioned a wall hanging that has a photograph for each letter of their last name.  The options are really endless in this category.
  • Gifts to for Starting a Life Together – this one is my personal favorite; one couple received a set of unique Christmas ornaments to decorate their first Christmas tree.
  • Vessels, vessels, vessels – many people mentioned lovely serving trays, crystal platters, sterling silver dishes, bowls and trays made by local artists and the like that are either used frequently or saved for very special occasions.
  • Sentimental Gifts – a few different folks received extra-special bowls and dishes from their families country of origin.  Another’s most personal and sentimental gift was a song her husband wrote and performed for her at the wedding.

via I Thee Wed

That you to all the beautiful brides in my life for your feedback!  xo