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F:  Where are you now and what are you doing?

L:  I’m at home in Cleveland sitting at the kitchen table.  Mom and David and I were hanging out for a bit but they both just went to bed.

F:  What are you most excited about in the next month?

L:  I’m most excited to have my days free to structure them however works best for me.

F:  Tell me about your day of travel. What made it so special?

L:  Oh man, what a day!  I flew to Cleveland via Charlotte and struck up a fantastic conversation with my seatmate, quickly realizing we had much in common.  It was super energizing.  Then in Charlotte my flight was delayed so I sat at a bar to have a drink and charge my phone.  Immediately this super eccentric older man on his way to the York Train Show came and sat down next to me.  Had I been in another mood I would have likely tried to avoid a conversation, but I’d just had such a good experience on the earlier flight that I decided to embrace it.  In the course of one beer he told me all about his thirty year career as a biology professor specializing in parasitology, his experience contracting malaria, the worst sunburn he ever had which he got mowing lawns as a young boy, an academic trip to Costa Rica in the ’60s, his current insect collection which includes hundreds of different types of butterflies and moths, and much, much more.  After he left I had a long conversation with this somewhat gregarious guy who was originally from southern Illinois and now lives in Cincinnati.  He was on his way back from a work trip to Las Vegas, and had won at the roulette table the night before.  He bought me a beer and hugged me when he left.  Then I went to the ladies room and the bathroom attendant complimented me on my hat and asked me where I was headed.  We ended up having a really sweet conversation about her upcoming trip to see her mother and her plan to retire to Fort Meyers, Florida next year.  I walked out of the bathroom feeling like my little heart could just burst with all the loveliness of humanity.

After almost five hours in the airport, my flight was finally boarding.  But when I got to the gate, something had gone wrong with my boarding pass and I was bumped off my flight.  I went to the customer service desk and was told that I might not make it out of Charlotte that night.  I was really trying to keep cool after having had such a delightful day.  Then the customer service agent asked me if I was an artist.  I said yes (why not; I took a painting class this summer).  Then I asked him if he was an artist and he also said yes.  I asked him what kind and he said he is a writer, so I asked him what kind of writing he does, and he said inspirational.  I asked him if he puts his writing out anywhere and he tells me to look up mytruedestiny.com.  Turns out he writes all about maximizing your potential and has published a book, “How Do I Reach My True Destiny?: 9 Principles for Authentic Living and Maximizing Your Potential.”  I told him that I’d just left my job of nearly eight years and that the timing was perfect, I will definitely be reading the book.  The whole thing felt surreal!

Roughly twelve hours after leaving NYC, I finally made it to Cleveland, and a day that might have been miserable somehow actually felt pretty magical.

F:  What are your staple items for fall?

L:  I have a black leather portfolio that holds a legal pad with all my life plans, ideas and to-do lists; it goes everywhere with me  these days.  I’m also back to wearing that pair of stretchy, black, high-waisted, acid-washed jeans I bought last year.  They are outrageously comfortable.  Other than that, I have been wearing slight variations on all black outfits almost every day, mostly because I’m not actually sure how I want to look right now.  Give me a week in Cleveland and I’m sure I’ll be adding more color to the mix.

F:  What do you do when you feel sad?

L:  Typically I cry, wallow and isolate.  Being around other people almost always makes me feel better but I find it hard to reach out when I’m upset, even when I know it would be beneficial.  When worse comes to worst, there’s always this 3-step course of action to fall back on.  It’s pretty foolproof.

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We lost our dear friend Bethany to stage IV lung cancer this past Friday; we are both so heartbroken.  Like all of Bethany’s friends and family, we keep returning to the memory of her luminosity and amazing laugh. These photos are from when we first met each other on a trip to India with our mom’s in 2003.

We are so thankful for having had the chance to know and love Bethany.  We will always cherish our time with her.

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FORGING a new path.  Yesterday was my last day at the job I’ve had for close to eight years.  I’m taking some time off over the next few months and am excited about things to come!

SNAGGING a pre-release vinyl copy of the new Monster Rally collaboration with Jay Stone.  Listen to the album’s first track here & don’t overlook peeping that cover art!

GETTING by with a little help from my friends (and family). #strengthinnumbers

 

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BLASTING the Amelie Soundtrack. It is the first thing I listen to when I am trying to get work done. It has been my go-to for years. Listen here.

LIFTING weights every Monday, Wednesday and Friday and killing it. Hit me up if you want to know my workout routine which was created by my trainer, Albert Cook.

PONDERING the universe, space and time and all that is in-between.

 

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“…and that is how I feel about suffering.  When something bad happens, I will not let go of that bad thing until I have discovered the blessing that lies within it.  When my late father died (now I’m in mourning for my late mother), that sense of grief and bereavement suddenly taught me that so many things that I thought were important, external success, all of that, is irrelevant.  You loose a parent, you suddenly realize what a slender thing life is.  How easily you can loose those you love.  And then out of that comes a new simplicity.  And that is why sometimes all the pain and the tears lift you to a much higher and deeper joy, when you say to the bad times, ‘I will not let you go until you bless me.'”

Jonathan Sacks via On Being with Krista Tippett

 

We hope you all had a nice weekend. Here are this week’s pics:

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Lauren – New York, NY

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Cloudy Saturday, back on my favorite rooftop

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Seasonal sidewalk flower box

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Taking care of business on Sunday afternoon in Brooklyn

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Farrell – Los Angeles, CA

Cooked up some of these guys for the first time in a while.

Cooked up some of these guys for the first time in a while.

Made these cute little pie cupcakes.

Made these cute little pie cupcakes.

Celebrated Caits-giving with all her friends in Downtown LA (Birthday girl on the far right).

Celebrated Caits-giving with all her friends in Downtown LA. (Birthday girl on the far right).

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L:  What is the name of that Netflix series you said you’re watching?

F: Ohh! It is called Peaky Blinders and I am so into it. There are only 6 episodes in the first season. I am trying my very best to pace myself because I don’t want it to be over. It is based on a real gang in 1919 in England. Check more out about it here.

L:  Are you a fan of soup(s)?

F: Interesting that you ask, Lulu! Today we have someone from Soupure coming to our office to drop off some samples of clean soups. I am all about it. Last week, I made homemade chicken soup since I wasn’t feeling well. Homemade soup is the best soup there is.

L:  If you had to listen to one song on repeat for the next hour, what would it be?

F: Ok, so hear me out. There is a documentary on Netflix called Reincarnated. It is about Snoop Dogg making a reggae album in Jamaica. I am sucker for basically anything I feel attached to. I have been listening to this song and I think I could play it on repeat for the next hour. I think I am embarrassed.

L:  Do you get Columbus Day on Monday off from work?

F: Nope, I sure don’t. I don’t even know when it is. Next Monday?

L:  What is your favorite lip balm?

F: Probably Lucas’ Paw Paw Ointment from Australia. You can buy it through our shop!

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Bringing you this week’ round-up of articles, videos, websites and other know-how that has recently captured our attention.  We hope you find something you l’ll like and pass it on!

1. Brittany Maynard’s choice to die with dignity (via cbc news) I know that it is heavy, but this young woman is very inspiring and I can’t imagine I could be as brave in her situation.

2. Susan Miller’s October forecasts (via Astrology Zone) This October has already been a whirlwind! Check out what more it has in store.

3. Parenting around the world (via kottke.org) We love this quick round up of different parenting styles from around the world.

4. Try This: Make Photo Booth Strips With Old Photos (via A Beautiful Mess) I love taking photo booth pictures and have been thinking of a way to put mine up. This is a great option!

5. The 3 Things I Look for on Ingredients Labels (via Healthy Crush)  A quick and helpful guide on how to read food labels.

6. Art Amnesty (via MoMA PS1)  Toss your old art work and art supplies into the dumpster at MoMA PS1.

7.  Building a Brand in Fashion (via americanexpressOpen) Our homie, Celina Paiz’s fashion line, La Selva is being featured in featured in TLC’s web series “Breaking Out In Fashion!”  To celebrate this video La Selva is giving 15% discount at our online shop. Just use the code breakingout123 at checkout!

8. This Guy Probably Recorded a Song You Love (via All Songs Considered).  Yes, in fact, he did!