Forget the 99%, be the 100%

The world in 2012 is an amazing place, full of wonder, innovation, and cooperation.  Within that world, America is an incredible land and an awesome idea.  Yet something is wrong with the country and the economy, affecting almost everyone.  At stake are people’s lives – their families, their homes, their communities and their sense of self-worth.  Because of these stakes, good individuals do things that are good for them but bad for society, whether it’s ignoring pollution or working for predatory lenders.

We are raised to believe that money is the reward for hard work; that making money helps society and fairly determines our value.  Making more money, by almost any means, is viewed as a virtue.  And the opposite is true of making less.  But now it’s obvious that this way of living is unhealthy, and our monetary system is corrupted, broken, and unfair.

It seems like only mass action, not individual financial success, will correct the ship of state – or more broadly, humanity.  Occupy Wall Street and the 99% have been America’s reaction. The premise of the movement is simple, even if the demands are not.  The premise is that the richest 1% of Americans has subverted the progress of the poorest 99%.  The movement believes only “occupation” and other military-themed protests will solve anything.

Here are a few problems with that logic:  The 1% is roughly 3,000,000 people.   The Occupy movement is based on divisive politics, pure and simple.  Blaming the rich is no different than race-bating or blaming gays for the failure of straight marriages.  Many of the 1% were simply born into their position and have had no affect on monetary or fiscal policy in their lifetimes.  The rich are not inherently bad nor the poor good, and the specific people and firms who directly contributed to the recession are a mix of both.  Viewing the world as a 99%er allows you to be unaccountable for your own impact on the economy.

Complaining about our problems and trying to bash the rich is easy – and cowardly.  It can be tempting, but is incredibly false and wrong.  Certain people in finance and politics may use flaws in our system to unjustly validate themselves, but America sets the rules and celebrates the winners.

Before Sept of 2008, I watched MTV’s Crib’s and listened to Jay-Z while wanting, approving, and glorifying excessive wealth.  I bet you did too.  Our entire country is responsible for our collective economic priorities, both good and bad.  And just as we all caused our problems, the only way to fix them is TOGETHER.

As we continue growing more connected as a species, our old institutions and power structures collapse. The more we connect the more we need each other because as things in our world break apart and change, all we have is each other.  We’ve come to a point where we must transistion as a people.  Simply put, we must unite to survive.

We have to be fully honest with one another, rich and poor.  Then forgive, unite, and move forward – we can be blessed by the abundance of the future, but we can’t do it divided.  We can’t do it pointing fingers and being hypocrites.  We can only do it by being honest with one another, by forgiving everyone for everything, and solving the five or so immediate, dire problems the world faces right now. Together, and only together, can we fix our world and ourselves by recognizing the humanity of, and human rights in, everyone.

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And in case you missed them, check out David’s previous posts Connected Part I and Part II.

I have quite an affection for quirky things.  A few years ago, I came across these laminated watches by Hally McGehean, which she makes from magazine clippings.  I think they are brilliant and so fun and playful.

I am also a huge fan, and owner of, Swatch’s Light Me Up Watch.  I was given this watch by some very hip and generous friends on my 30th birthday.  When you tap the watch’s face, it lights up to glow in the dark.

And you can’t dismiss the power of wearing a message around your wrist.  Though, I don’t love the design of this Now is the Time Watch (found here), I really like the idea of it.  In case you want to write your own message, or change it up whenever you want, Post-It and PA design offer this clever paper alternative.

Time’s a ticking, everybody. Can’t wait until later to have fun.

Happy Monday! This weekend brought some snow here to New York City; it was the first snow this winter (though we had some fall snow on Halloween). As you know, every week, we ask some of our friends to send us a picture they took. This week’s pictures are especially great. Thank you to everyone who contributed! Have a great week.

Mike – Georgia

I am sending these two pictures, taken where I currently am in Georgia, courtesy of Jalle Torbjorusson.

These houses are in Tbilisi, Georgia’s capital and largest city.

This church is located in Mtskhreta, one of Georgia’s the oldest cities.

Farrell – Brooklyn, New York

I had a make your own pizza party and it was amazing! We made about 14 pizzas total. Each one was unique, beautiful and delicious! (This photo was taken by the wonderful and lovely Jessica Cox)

Geoff – Brooklyn, New York

Jo is a fly girl, in every sense of the word.  This lady can mooove.  Explosions of awesome dance moves. Makes you just wanna stand back and watch!

Nicholas Girard – Long Beach, California

This picture was taken when I was on a trip with my friend Mike to southern California in 2010. One of our main goals was to surf. We stayed with the right people to ensure that surfing would be a focal point of our time in Long Beach, but mother nature had a completely different schedule in mind.

This snapshot was taken on our first day.  We basically got off the plane, met up with the people we were staying with and went straight to the beach to get a look at the waves, only to find the weather overcast and a chance of rain reported for everyday we were to be in town. While on the pier and checking out the waves, Mike and I were already making bets on who would be the first person to catch a wave or to stand up on the board, for we both had not surfed before. We had quickly built surfing up to a “Top Priority” task that would only be supplemented by the spray of the ocean’s saltwater underneath our surfboards, gliding into the shore, crowds of people cheering for two guys from the Midwest.  Or at least that is how we pictured it.

Looking out into the ocean, I stood on the other side of the railing at the Belmont Pier and took this picture; it’s pointed westward out over the Pacific. I like the sense of solitude that the picture depicts and how if you look along the horizon, miles and miles away, you can see the ocean gleaming with sun and a clearer sky. That was the weather I was hoping for, but actually, for the four days I was in town, it rained for the better portion of each day. An unbelievable time was still had.  I wasn’t going to let not being able to surf ruin my time traveling.
Since this trip, Mike and I have vowed to take another trip solely dependent on surfing.

“A Work of Art
… is not a living thing …
that walks or runs.
But the making of a life.
That which gives you a reaction.
To some it is the wonder of Man’s Fingers.
To some it is the wonder of the Mind.
To some it is the wonder of Technique.
And to some it is how Real it is.
To some, how Transcendent it is.

Like the 5th Symphony
it presents itself with a feeling
that you know it, if you have heard it once.
And you look for it,
and though you know it you must hear it again.
Though you know it you must see it again.

Truly a work of Art is one that tells us,
that Nature cannot make what man can make.”

-Louis Kahn

Top Image: Louis Kahn’s unbuilt Hurva Synagogue.  Bottom Image: Louis Kahn’s Philip Exeter Library


Ever since I was little, my grandparents have had season tickets to the Cleveland Orchestra.  I remember my grandfather would sit in his chair and listen to classical music all day long. He would act as if he were the conductor and simply drift with the music. I always loved to watch him; not because I liked the music but because he seemed so peaceful. After my grandfather passed away, my grandmother continued to go to the symphony. I have been her guest on many occasions and I see how my interest in classical music increases the more I go.  Recently, I have been listening to a contemporary composer by the name of Philip Glass. Though he has written many symphonies,  my favorite is a solo piece of his. It is somewhat haunting yet also somewhat beautiful. Please listen.

I met Matt a couple of years ago through a friend. Since then, I have followed his photography and see him at parties from time to time. I always knew he was awesome, but it wasn’t until he dj’ed a party I was at that I realized he is the coolest. It was one of the best dance parties I have been a part of. So without further ado, here is playlist from Matt.  Get on your feet and dance!

1) Azealia Banks – 212
2) Missy Elliott – She’s a Bitch
3) Little Dragon – Please Turn
4) Wham – Everything She Wants (Morgan Geist Edit)
5) Lauryn Hill – Lost Ones
6) Ghost Town DJs – My Boo
7) Twin Shadow – Castles In The Snow (Com Truise Remix)
8) Selena Gomez – Love You Like A Love Song
9) I’m Not A Band – Crazy (MMMatthias Remix)
10) Katy B – Easy Please Me
11) Janet Jackson – Son of a Gun (Original Beat Remix)
12) Melt – Don’t Leave Me This Way
13) The Boomtown Rats – (Tell Me Why) I Don’t Like Mondays

Suzanne has been one of our mother’s best friends since graduate school and is basically our third parent. She moved into our home the day Lauren (the oldest of the four of us) was born and lived with us for thirteen years.  She was there for every birthday, knee scratch and first day of school. Just like any other parent, she helped mold me into the person I am today.  What can I say, she is the best.  When we were growing up, every time we said goodbye to Suz, she would tell us, “Trust in yourself.  Do what’s right.”   I asked Suz about her biggest life lessons; this is what she had to say:

Suzanne’s Biggest Lessons

Do what’s right – While it can be hard, you’ll never regret doing the right thing. Part of doing what’s right is to try to live without clocking up regrets.  It’s being true to yourself.  It’s way easier to do the right thing the first time, than it is to go back and apologize. If you do things right the first time, you will live with less regret.

I asked Suz how you know what the right this is.  She said, “You think about it. Nobody can say what is right for you.”

Don’t treat people with different levels of respect because of their station in life – I learned this lesson when I began to work and realized that people are just people. For example, whether you do or don’t have a degree does not mean you are more or less special. Often, if you exclude people from your life, you are the one missing out. Don’t be quick to judge people. You are only cheating yourself.

Live below your means – Living below your means is a way for you to protect your future, and the future of your health and family. If you live at the edge of exactly what you are making, you have no room to grow financially.  You cannot build your life by living above your means.  By living below your means, saving for retirement and/or a catastrophic event, you are taking responsibility for your whole life. 

In case you missed it, check out Biggest Lessons: Part 1 here.

I started doing dance cardio workouts at the beginning of November. The workout is not a dance routine by any means, it’s more of a jump-around-and-let-loose-for-30-minutes kind of thing. If you asked me a couple of months ago to do some dance cardio, I would have laughed at you and said no, thank you. I would have thought it would be lame, hard and cheesy. But now, it’s my remedy for the winter blues. As we say in our family, “first you mock the position, then you are IN the positon”.

You see, I am a self disagnosed member of the SAD (Season Affect Disorder) community. If you are like me, and the idea of dreary skies and dark days makes you want to tear up, then you can understand the extremes one would take to get through the winter. Of course, I have a respect for the seasons and the time to hybernate, but at what cost. Not MY happiness. So, the two things that are getting my through this winter are Vitamin D and dance cardio.

I usually start my workouts thinking about “my problem of the day” but by the end of my workout I am almost always thinking about how awesome my friends are or how grateful I am for my parents. This is what having private party with myself every day has done for me. It has brought me gratitude during a season in which I am generally down. It has also made me more loving to the people who allow me to be carefree, cause truth is, I AM strengthening my heart.

As for the music:

I listen to Girl Talk’s most recent album “All Day” when I dance. Girl Talk’s music is perfect for dancing. Jacob Krupnick made a video for the entire “All Day” album of people dancing all over New York City. His project was made to inspire people to dance more (which is what I am also trying to do here!). You should definitely check the whole video out, but here are two of my favorite tracks:

I made a quick trip home to Cleveland over the weekend.  It is a short flight and an easy, familiar journey.  While I was waiting for my mom to pick me up, I was thinking how much I enjoy watching people being dropped off and picked up at the airport.

The emotional welcomes and farewells are of course heartwarming and heartbreaking, respectively.  They are like glimpses into a story whose context you don’t know, yet simultaneously offer so much information.  You see the many ways in which people express themselves, or otherwise hold feelings tightly within.  The overt displays of love stand among the whole spectrum of human emotion and relatedness, marking mundane to monumental moments.

These interactions serve almost as book ends to the beginnings or conclusions of chapters of one’s life.  It’s this mix of first time fliers, final farewells, casual business travelers and epic beginnings that appeals to me.  The coming together and separating that illustrates life’s perpetual motion.  The visual confirmation that every goodbye is followed by a hello down the line.

Hi everyone! I hope you had a fun weekend. It was freezing here in NYC! We asked some of our friends to send us a picture they took over the weekend and here is what they sent:

Juani – Cleveland, Ohio

I found these candles in a junk drawer of my house when I moved in. Because they’re in the shape of flowers, the only feasible way to burn them is floating in shallow water. So this was on the coffee table during a TGIF power hour at the end of a particularly stressful week and we just played with the melting wax and talked and unwound. I took this picture of the final product the next morning.

Jessica – Brooklyn, New York

I liked this nail pattern for two reasons. 1) Because it reminds me of the floor of the ballet studio that I practiced at for 11 years. And 2) because the boys I nanny for love chess and its reminds me of them.

Teddy – Columbus, Ohio

At the Columbus Beerfest this Saturday.

Albert – New York, New York

This is my go-to lunch spot around work. It was shut down over night by the health department. GROSS!

There’s so much joy in finding things that strike you as funny and bring amusement to your life.  I always keep the latest New Yorker magazine in my purse for my commute to and from work.  Of course every issue is dense with interesting articles, stories and reviews but the cartoons are not to be overlooked and often really crack me up.  This one, from the most recent issue, made me laugh out loud.

Also, having been once fondly described by a slightly over-served friend as “awkward but awesome”, it’s no wonder that I have a real soft spot for awkward humor.  Along that vein, conceptual artist Steve Lambert had what he called the “kind of idea that only comes to you at 12:30am.” and made the most awkward “404 not found” page on the internet.

I strongly encourage you to head over, check it out and experience amusement in the discomfort!

Where do I possibly start to tell you about Cedar Point? Located in Sandusky, Ohio (15 miles from my grandma’s beach house), Cedar Point is home to over 17 roller coasters. There is also a water park, parasailing, jet skiing and the fact that is in the middle of Lake Erie. Did I mention that it is also rated America’s Best Amusement Park.  I have honestly never been to a better one in all of my life. Every summer growing up, my cousins, siblings and I would go to Cedar Point.  I will never forget the feeling when you finally see the park itself. I still get a magical feeling inside when I approach it.

There is just something special about Cedar Point. It is not trying to wow you with fake thrills and still has an old fashioned feel to it. Don’t let the unassuming mystique fool you. All of the roller coasters are bad ass. My favorite is Disaster Transport. This is Cedar Point’s only indoor roller coaster and I make sure to head straight for it.

The Millennium Force is one of the most popular roller coasters at Cedar Point. It goes up to 93 mph and has the steepest hill I have ever experienced; you feel like you are falling straight into the water. It is an amazing experience!

I HAVE to mention the Magnum. The Magnum holds a special place in all Cedar Point lovers hearts. When we were little, it was the highest roller coaster in the world. According to Wikipedia, the Magnum is considered to have started the roller coaster wars, in which amusement parks competed to build the highest and fastest roller coasters. It has won amusement park awards since it was debuted in 1989.

Cedar Point holds a special place in my heart. I hope you too can enjoy it someday!