Pictures from California.
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Farrell – Los Angeles, California
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Went dancing at the W Hotel in Hollywood
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Coffee at Casbah Cafe
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A lovely dinner party in the Pacific Palisades
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Sunday BBQ
You know you live in California when you go to a gathering where a man channels spirits – which is what I did yesterday. If you put the hocus pocus aside, I did take some things from that experience. Most importantly, I was reminded how important it is to be the silly, interested, outgoing and ridiculous person I am.
I am clearly not taking myself too seriously here. Why should I now?
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I love a good spirit animal reference. I’m sure there’s something very legitimate to the whole concept but I don’t know enough about it to take it very seriously. This is a fun online quiz to determine what your spirit animal is. Today I got equal parts wolf and swan; the descriptions sound about right.
Wolf: “Family comes first” could be a Wolf’s motto. You form deep connections with close friends and family members, and they know you’d do anything to protect them. You’re loyal, devoted, and passionate. Your worst fear is being alone, but be careful not to drown your loved ones in too much emotion.
Swan: Swans are idealistic, open-minded, and passionate. Your good nature often leads people to think they can take advantage of you, but they should be careful—beneath that serenity lies a fighting spirit. Your love is fierce and unconditional, fueled by the certainty that it should last forever.

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My dad used to recite this poem for us when my siblings and I were little. I think that we could all recite a couple of verses on any given moment. There are still days that this poem gets stuck in my head and today is one of them. I still can’t read this poem without hearing my dad’s voice in my head.
L: Tell me about when it rained in LA this week.
F: Oh boy! Well let me start this story by letting you know that I have been living in Los Angles for 7 months now. I have never seen it rain. While we were working in our office, we were “alerted” that it was raining. Everyone stood up and stared out the window for a while with smiles on their faces. I felt SO happy. It felt like the first snow on the East Coast.
L: Do you have any floral clothes? They’re all the rage for Spring, I hear.
F: I have one shirt that is floral. I just don’t really dig the floral scene on me. I feel TOO girlie. It’s not for me. I am open to changing my perspective on that though. 😉
L: What’s your favorite game?
F: At the moment, beach volleyball. I have fallen in love with the sport. You don’t have to be good. It is a great workout. It is a perfect way to spend time with your friends. You also get to be in the sun.
L: Do you ever feel lonely?
F: I feel lonely every once and a while. If anything, I think I should spend more time alone. I am rarely alone. I used to feel really lonely when I lived in NYC. I think being surrounded by all of those people can be a false sense of company.
L: If you were going to dye your hair, what color would you choose?
F: Girrrrrl. I would love to dye my hair black. I would just love to see what it felt like and if I liked it. Or, hot pink.
I spent the most lovely time in Seattle this past week building stronger relationships with some of my favorite people in the world these days.
It is amazing how much better you feel after you have opened up to people.
Here are some pics from this weekend:
Ever since I can remember I have loved people. I just love connecting with different people. I am talking all levels of connection: seeing someone who is serious burst into laughter for the first time, making eye contact with a stranger, relating to someone you never thought you could. I live day to day for those moments.
My friend sent me this TED talk by Amanda Palmer yesterday. It is about creativity and giving back and connecting with people. I have been thinking about it all day. I love her message and wanted to share it with you.
She also wrote an open letter to Sinead O’Connor’s open letter to Miley Cyrus. Did you follow that? Check it out here.
Connect the dots la la la la
I am obsessed with Kristen Wiig! I can’t get enough. I think she is one of the funniest comedians that I have ever seen. Lately, when I need a laugh, I have been watching her best skits on SNL.
[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcDrc4tUgnc]Huffington Post put together her 15 most memorable skits here. Please check it out. They are hilarious.
I have started to save some of my favorite text messages lately and it has paid off. Whenever I am scrolling through my pictures, some positive and encouraging words always come up. Here are some that have stuck with me:
I recommend that you start taking screen shots of your favorite words exchanged.
L: What is a piece of advice you’d give your 10 yr old self?
F: I would tell her I loved her. I would also let her know that there are some really big changes coming soon. Continue to be yourself and always speak your mind. Don’t be mean to other people to hide your own fears. Try your best to not take on other people’s pain.