I’ve been feeling a little homesick lately. When I told Al that I was feeling homesick, he asked, “For Cleveland?” And I thought, I don’t even really know what I mean. Then I thought of this post about the concept of home that I wrote a while back. It was a good reminder.
Then, as I was looking back on older posts, I found some other good ones like this one on spring cleaning that I posted 2 years ago today.
Welp, my last day of the 21-day Clean Gutprogram was this past Friday. The challenge of it took me by surprise. I thought it would be a piece of cake. In some ways it was, and in unexpected ways, it wasn’t.
I learned some things about myself: I stick to the rules too much. I tend to not eat enough. I am the worst when I am tired. I kind of need caffeine to feel like “myself”(scary thought).
All in all, I felt pretty low energy. I should mention that I was taking additional supplements for gut repair, so it made things more intense. The last week of the program I added in bananas and sweet potatoes. It really was a game changer.
I went into the program thinking that I might get some insight into the cause of my monthly headaches, but no dice. On to the next trick.
This weekend has been filled with leisure, challenges (physical), good food and some light reading. How was yours? Here are this week’s pictures:
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Farrell – Los Angeles, New York
This young buck got his first haircut in a year (Just a trim).
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On the hunt for a mirror for our new apartment!
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I just can’t wrap my head around this strawberry situation
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Lauren – New York, New York
I had a really nice brunch on Saturday with some friends in Long Island City, Queens. Afterwards, because I was so close, I thought I’d walk over to MoMA’s PS1. Here’s a little glimpse of the shows that were up there.
I know this is probably a funny thing to post on a blog, however, lately I have been stressed about communicating through technology. During the week, I feel like I am constantly on screens. There are times when I have at least 15 people I have been texting with throughout the day. I am delighted to be connected to all of the people I love, though these conversations do not fulfill me nearly as much as real human interaction.
I am certainly guilty of avoiding real conversation and using a text or chat when, in reality, the person deserves at least a phone call from me. We all do. We communicate more and more with each other, but in the end it makes you feel really lonely.
As I have said before, the weekends have been a test for me to take a break from all of my screens and live in real life. So far my research has shown that it is nearly impossible for me to do.
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Have you listened to Beck’s new album, Morning Phase? If not, it’s really good and I’d recommend you go ahead and give it a full listen. This song, “Blue Moon,” seems to be the one that’s getting most heavily promoted off the bat. Perhaps it is because of the universality of its opening lyric, “I’m so tired of being alone.” Perhaps not. Either way, you can’t really deny the power of belting out those words. Hell, Al Green’s masterpiece by that title never ceases to provide the sounds for a good ol’ self-pity session while simultaneously putting a little pep in your step. Of course there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Many, many wonderful things can arise out of the time one spends alone. So for those of you thinking to yourself, man, what I wouldn’t do for a little alone time, I wish you some personal space. And for those of you whose alone-ness is creeping towards lonely, I wish you peace, patience and a proactive spirit. As they say, we’re all in this together!
Yep, it’s been 1 year since I moved to Los Angeles.
There is no way I could have imagined where my life would go once Albert and I made this move.
I found a job I love with people who I truly care about and I get to spend my weekends in the sunshine.
Since the move, I have gotten into hiking, beach volleyball, being gluten free (!), talking about the traffic, surrounded myself with healthy people, watching SO many movies – the list goes on.
There ARE times, usually right before bed, when I feel an emptiness inside me that reminds me that I am not closer to my family and my home.
I am not sure the sunshine could ever outweigh what I have on the other side of the country.
I will say that I am really happy I did something that I was scared to do. It has taken me to places I never thought I would go.
And of course, I would have never been able to do it with out him:
F: Not at all. I will be turning 29 so soon. I told Mom that and she was speechless. She didn’t know how old I was!
L: What is something you’ve learned from being a part of a large family?
F: Something that I’ve learned from being part of a big family is how awesome it is to have so much support. There are so many people in my life who I love and who love me. It is so awesome.
L: Are you watching any shows regularly right now?
F: Now that True Detective is over and House of Cards is done, not really. Though, Albert and I have been watching An Idiot Abroad and it has been very entertaining. I suggest it.
L: What is a memorable gift that you’ve received?
F: My 25th birthday present to Paris from my one and only, Albie! Best gift ever!
L: Care to leave us with a song?
I have been pretty quiet lately. When I want to do work, I listen to this:
Hey, hey, hey! How are you all feeling? I know the temperatures were higher on the East Coast. I am sure you all spent some time outside. Here are this week pics:
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Farrell – Los Angeles, CA
Nothing like foodwatching while you are on a cleanse.
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Our coffeeshop – Casbah Cafe
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Shopping
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New overalls
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Lauren – New York, NY
Though it was a good one, I didn’t really take any pictures of my weekend. I did, however, spend some time working on new side bar images for this site. I really enjoyed making these updates which include, among others, the photo compilations below:
Sometimes there is nothing better than scrolling the internet for interior inspiration. Well lit, lofty spaces and cozy corners give way to a thousand futures I might have.