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Earlier this week I was feeling desperate to find some new music for listening.  That all changed when my forever friend Jo introduced me to Cambodian rock n’ roll oldies; I’ve been hooked ever since.  Jo has been living in Cambodia for the last a year and half.  Today she kicks off a new column about life abroad as told, in this case, through music.  Enjoy!

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This week I left Phnom Penh for a long holiday weekend trip with friends to beach-y Sihanoukville. Right away we got a proper hang going on the beach with a bottle of wine, crabs and squid perfect in a Kampot pepper sauce (haggled over at the market!), and a gorgeous sunset over the Gulf of Thailand.

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For the finishing touch to get our beach hang jammin’, my friend started playing a soundtrack of Cambodian rock n’ roll oldies that knocked my socks off. At first I thought I knew the music – at times, it sounds like surf rock, Motown or even psychedelic – it sounds so familiar to the rock n’ roll I grew up with and yet completely foreign. It also sounds much more original than the conservative and sappy Khmer pop music being made today.

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I found out this mesmerizing music is from a creative burst during the 1960s & 70s between Cambodian independence from French colonial rule and the rise of the genocidal Khmer Rouge, in which there was a flourishing and unlikely Cambodian rock n’ roll scene. This music was influenced by the incredible rock music happening in the US and the UK filtered through a French lens, but decidedly Cambodian.

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The music from this time was mostly lost due to persecution of the artists by the Khmer Rouge and has been widely forgotten. When I pressed my friend for the name of the bands he said nobody knows and just to google “Khmer Rock n’ Roll.”  However, there have been some efforts to preserve and resurrect this musical moment, including a documentary released this year: “Don’t Think I’ve Forgotten: Cambodia’s Lost Rock and Roll.”

Living in Cambodia for the past year and a half has been a kaleidoscope of perspective-altering friendships and work, charming culture, remnants of a dark history, converging Asian and Western influences, and nearly constant sensory input. It often feels hard to make sense of it all and write home about how it has been to live here. So, to know about Cambodia and what I can’t articulate with words, please listen to this haunting and oh-so-cool music.

*Revisit Jo’s previous post on Sister Disco looking at portrayals of women in art through the unlikely combination of Karen O + Kandinsky

Happy Autumnal Equinox!  We hope you enjoyed your last summer weekend of the year.  Here’s a little glimpse into our weekends.

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Lauren – New York, NY

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Cut the work week short to spend Friday afternoon with this sweet face

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Transform our world with creative response

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Lychee street sale

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Farrell – Los Angeles, CA

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I know it doesn't look particularly crafy, but I started my weekend with two beautiful girls making crafts.

I know this doesn’t look particularly crafty, but I started my weekend making crafts with two beautiful girls.

I also did some shopping with this bear.

I also did some shopping with this bear.

and got some white shoes!

And got some new white shoes!

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V.I.P., 2014 by Cordy Ryman

F: Have you had any meaningful conversations this week?

L: Definitely! I have been keeping myself pretty busy lately and have had evening plans with friends almost every day since I’ve been back in NYC. What I have found particularly meaningful are instances in which friends have acknowledged some of the loss I’ve experienced lately and are willing to listen to me talk about it. I feel pretty lucky to have as many people care about me as I do & it makes me want to be a better friend in return.

F: What is something that you have learned over the past couple of weeks?

L: When you have the opportunity to see someone you love on their deathbed, go.

F: Show me a picture out of your window.

L: Lots of activity down below!

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F: What are you looking forward to?

L: My future! I have a lot of ideas for some creative pursuits and partnerships and I’m going to spend the next phase of life trying to materialize them. It feels exciting.

F: What is your desktop background and why?

L: I’ve been rocking this pretty lady for some time, ’cause I like her moves!

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The past few weeks have been full of various forms of transition for me, so much so that life is feeling a little like it is happening somewhere outside the normal measure of time.  Things are moving very fast, and very slow.  Farrell once said to me, “No worry, no hurry.”  It’s a silly and simple little phrase that has popped into my head so many times since I first heard it.  It is a much faster way to say this, which re-finds me every time I need it.  

*Above image: Helmut Newton for Vogue Paris, June/July 1973

Hi everyone! We hope you enjoyed your weekend. Here are this week’s pics:

Lauren – New York, NY

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don’t make the scene. be.

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Four chairs, Ludlow St.

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Birgit Brenner at Marc Straus Gallery

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Nails, nails, nails, nails, nails on Chrytie St.

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Farrell – Los Angeles, CA

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Team retreat in Big Bear, CA

Team retreat in Big Bear, CA

Filled with arts and crafts

Filled with arts and crafts

..jumping and swimming...

…jumping and swimming…

and Aqua Flight!

and Aqua Flight!

IMG_3246I got back to New York on Sunday night and have been slowly reacquainting myself with life here, reluctantly easing my way back in for fear of moving away from all the sadness and beauty of the past week.  Last night I sat down at my computer, unsure of what to post I mindlessly began tumbling through this site until I saw a link that simply said Listen.  I clicked, this played:

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This past weekend we said goodbye to one of the most important people in our lives. Suz lived with us for many years while we were growing up and basically played the role of a third parent in our family. Suz was an ever-present source of love and support to each of us; we loved her more than I could ever begin to convey in words. She will be forever remembered, forever missed and forever a part of us.

Suz’s Life Lessons