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I’ve always limited my thinking about outer space because, frankly, its vastness gives me a headache.  But I recently listened to a story on NPR, ‘Space Chronicles’: Why Exploring Space Still Matters, that made me reconsider this avoidance of thought.

Author and astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson “argues in his new book “Space Chronicles: Facing the Ultimate Frontier,” that if America’s leaders don’t invest more in NASA, if they give up on bold missions to the moon and Mars, students are less likely to dream about discovering, and they’re not going to be as interested in the fields of science, technology, engineering and math.”

This made me think about the ways in which I personally, and we as a country, have blocked our own innate condition to dream and to imagine, and how doing so deprives ourselves and each other of our own greatness.

To me, outer space is too much.  Too big.  It makes me feel too small.  So I excuse myself from thinking about it because it scares me.  But, as timing would have it, I am spending a lot of time lately looking a the ways fear stands in the way of living in one’s own truth.  And considering that, in fact, “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” – Marianne Williamson

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Postscript:  I finished this post and went to watch some “The Daily Show with Jon Stewart.”   Low and behold, the guest is Neil degrasse Tyson, author of “Space Chronicles.”  It’s a great interview and this guy is awesome.  Watch for yourself here.

Hi Sister Disco readers! I just got back from a 10 day trip to India.  Chennai, Tamil Nadu to be exact. Though I got the flu while I was away, in the mix of my sickness and jet lag, I can’t stop thinking about Indian style and how functionally beautiful it is. Before I left, I was certain I was ready with a week and a half of stylish, Indian-ish outfits. As it turns out, I was wrong. The heat there is not compatible with any “American” fabrics. I ended up buying an almost completely new wardrobe for the time I was there and it was awesome. An Indian woman I met told me that I was becoming more and more Indian every day. I wanted to share some of my favorite things about Indian fashion with you.

Bindis

Traditionally in South India (where I was), women most often wear a red dot between their eyebrows, however many different kinds of bindis can be, and are worn. Though in the past, bindis were worn as a sign of marriage or of the the third eye, nowadays, bindis serve more as a fashion statement than anything else. When wearing a bindi, placed in between your eyebrows, you eyes become the focal point of your face.

Flowers

Indian women wear jasmine flowers in their hair everyday for the scent and the sight of it. It is so beautiful!

Henna

Generally used for celebrations, such as marriage ceremonies, Indians have been applying henna for centuries. Now, it is both used as a fashion statement as well as honored in traditional ways.

Color

As you can see, Indian style is just more colorful. When I unpacked my suitcase, I realized that I packed mostly black and neutral colors. After my trip to India, I have vowed to add more color and fun to my wardrobe and to my life!  Stay tuned for more pictures from my trip!

Last week I said goodbye to my life as a Blackberry customer and moved into the world of the iPhone.  In the transition, I pulled these photos from my old phone.  Have a great start to the week, everybody!

Coney Island lights — New York, New York

 

Allen St. and Rivington St., New York, New York

 

3rd Avenue — New York, New York

 

Our trip to see David last year — San Francisco, CA

 

Fireworks over the Terminal Tower — Cleveland, Ohio

Each week we pick a word and each do a post based on that word.  This week: Fly

Never hurt a fly

Time flies

Fly on the wall

Fly me to the moon

Fly by the seat of your pants

On the fly

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As you read this, I am most likely flying back to NYC from India. I am sure I will have tons of things to share and new, exciting things to discuss. Until then, I will never forget a podcast I heard on This American Life about flying. The story is about people who do not ordinarily cry, but are always brought to tears watching movies on airplanes. No matter what movie is playing, these people always end up in tears.

This episode really made me think. There really is something reflective and different about the way you feel when you are flying. You are on your way to somewhere else. My mom has always said that you need the time it takes to travel from one place to another in order to transition your thoughts and prepare yourself to arrive there. I think she might be right.

When I was little, my parents had a friend named Alan who could play the piano exceptionally well. Whenever Alan would come over, we would beg him to play the piano and he would always agree. I remember specifically a night around dinnertime, Alan was over, and our power went out.  We all went into the living room and he played the piano, in the dark, for what felt like the entire night. Ever since then I have been fascinated with the way the piano sounds. It’s beautiful and there is nothing more remarkable than watching someone play.

Nils Frahm photo via Erased Tapes

I wanted to share the video below of German composter, Nils Frahm, playing the piano. It is pretty epic. I can only imagine what it felt like to be in that room with him while he played.

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You can learn more about Nils Frahm and listen to more his music here.  It’s so worth it!

A few years ago I spent a week in Black Rock City, Nevada for Burning Man.  It was an awesome experience filled with many fleeting but meaningful moments with all sorts of people.  Among them was an encounter I had with a palm reader, who asked if he could read my palm.  I willingly presented my right hand, face up, and was taken aback when, with one look at my open palm, the man burst out in a personal, pleasant laughter.  I asked why he was laughing and he told me simply that I had exactly equal head and heart lines, and that this was very rare.

I felt somewhat pleased to offer amusement to the man.  While though I found his statement to be a compliment of sorts, it was clearly something with which he took more appreciation than did I.  It wasn’t immediately obvious to me what it means to have equal head and heart; though it did resonate.  Today, I kind of half know, and half feel what it means.  And I guess that’s exactly what he read from me.

I like the idea of living in balance between the head and heart, optimizing the full extent each has to offer.  They are both such powerful forces.

Just imagine all the good that can come when they work together.

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Ryan is truly a man needing no introduction. Since the start of Sister Disco, I’ve known I wanted Ryan to contribute. He is someone that you want at every event because he’s simply certain to make it more fun. When we were last talking, Ryan mentioned that he loves being a tour guide to visitors.  I was thrilled because I’ve been wanting to start a series focusing on what people love about where they live! So, we’re off – take us to Chicago, Ryan!

CHICAGO!

I started jotting down ideas and thoughts for this post while at one of Bucktown’s hippest hangout’s called Filter.  This place is uniquely Chicago; it holds everything you would expect of an urban coffee shop and then some.  Locally created art work adorns the walls with hand-written price tags and descriptions.  Laptops and headphones can be seen from every angle.  So keep the porn at home, because everyone can see your desktop background, dude.  None of the furniture matches and it isn’t supposed to, because it was all bought from the neighborhood’s thrift stores.  This gestalt is achieved by its lack of order and consideration, but really it’s the people that complete this picture.  Students and service industry refugees, artists and musicians all keep their coffee cups filled and their pencils tapping at Filter seven days a week.

This is Chicago.  This is my city.  Let’s talk about it…

My favorite thing about this city is the unique character each neighborhood brings to the table.  Chicago is organized on a grid of streets and boulevards that divide the city into no less than 40 neighborhoods.  To be honest at least half of those are in what we call “the south side”, the half of the city that I never really visit because, well, it isn’t very safe.  Now that I have over-generalized and offended south side natives, let’s move on with what most people see when they visit here: the north side and “The Loop”.

The Magnificent Mile

To get the most out of a visit to The Windy City, one must prioritize.  There are so many things to do and see that without a game plan, you’re sure to miss out on a couple critical themes to this adventure.  I’ve found it easiest to break it down into two categories: things to do and places to eat.  Although it is easy to get around the city, it does take a fair bit of time to get from point-A to point-B.  Therefore it is best to determine what to do, then figure out where to eat.  With that squared away, let’s talk game plan…

The number one place to go, without fail, at any time of the day or year, is Millennium Park.

Completed shortly after its namesake year 2000, this is probably one of the nicest places in the city.  Located in the heart of downtown only a few hundred yards from Lake Michigan, Millenium Park is a beautiful by every standard.  On a sunny summer day the place is packed with people in every corner, usually with most attention focused around “Cloud Gate,” or as most people call it “The Bean.”  I have been to the park and seen “The Bean” a couple dozen times and it NEVER gets old.  Reflective and massive, this piece of art consistently evokes a smile every time I see it.

After tooling around the park, one might be in need of a quick bite to eat. Stroll on down to The Purple Pig.  Only a few blocks down Michigan Ave, this small bistro has a creative menu of small plates that are all delicious.  It’s a local favorite and well respected; so have a glass of wine from their extensive list and wait for a table, it’s worth it.

If weather permits, I would definitely recommend an architecture river boat tour.  I’ve done these tours a couple times now and it is a really cool perspective from which to see the city.  Full of trivia, anecdotes, and scandalous Chicago history, it’s a great way to get a handle on the architecture that makes up the city’s impressive skyline.  Reasonably priced at around $30, it is a relaxing way to kill some time and learn a thing or two.  And if that isn’t enough to convince you, price of admission covers a free drink.  Sold!

Now that you’ve see the city from the lowest possible vantage point, its time to take it up a notch.  Straighten your ties and button your blouses folks, because we’re going up 96 floors to get the best view in the city.  That’s right, we’re going to The Signature Room at the top of the John Hancock Center.


Stacked amongst the clouds over 1,000 feet up, this view is seriously breath taking.  The Hancock building has a great location near the coast line, which allows for panoramic views of Lake Michigan and the entire city.  To get into the observatory, there is a one drink minimum per person.  Drinks are overpriced and service staff is usually frustrated from dealing with tourists all day, but again, saddle up, because it’s well worth it.

After a cocktail or two you’re probably about ready to settle in to a nice warm atmosphere with delicious food and a mean wine list.  Look no further than Vivo, a 20 year old Italian restaurant made up of veteran staff and perfected cuisine.

Exposed brick walls frame the dining room of the upscale venue, while white tablecloths and a single candle adorn each table.  Vivo has employed the same head chef since day one, so believe me when I say the kitchen staff has these plates down to a science.  They serve a truffle oil gnochi that is mind numbingly delicious.  Throw in a little dessert and a glass of port, and you’ve got a dinner you’ll never forget…

This is just day 1, and you haven’t even left the loop yet!  Needless to say…there will be more to come!

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I have always loved a good documentary. They can be so captivating, raw and emotional. Because documentaries are real, I find that you connect to the stories much faster than fictional movies. No matter what the subject matter, it is easier to fall into the story. Below are a couple of documentaries I’ve watched lately that I can’t stop thinking about.

Senna

Senna is the story of Brazilian Formula-One racer Alyton Senna’s rise to win three world championships. You can watch it instantly on Netflix. It is truly amazing. This movie is powerful and sincere. I loved it so much.

Unfinished Spaces

“Cuba’s ambitious National Art Schools project, designed by three young artists in the wake of Castro’s Revolution, is neglected, nearly forgotten, then ultimately rediscovered as a visionary architectural masterpiece.”  (Unfinished Spaces official site)  It is captivating and visually stimulating. You can watch the trailer here.  It should be available on Netflix soon.

Exit Through the Gift Shop

This is the story of how an eccentric French shop keeper and amateur film maker attempt to locate, and befriend, famous graffiti artist Banksy (IMDB). This documentary takes some unexpected turns, but keeps you itching to know what will happen next. You can watch it instantly on Netflix.

 

Beats Rhymes & Life: The Travels of a Tribe Called Quest

This documentary takes you through the making and the breaking of one of the most influential groups in hip hop, while reminding you of all its amazing music. Even if you don’t know much about a Tribe Called Quest going into the movie, you’ll leave a fan. You can have it shipped through Netflix.

 

What are you favorite documentaries? I would love to know!

Farrell – Brooklyn, New York

I went to my friend’s apartment the other day and this skateboard was on the wall. I could not stop looking at it. I think it is hilarious!

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Sarah – Houston, Texas

Wedding cupcakes that I made 😉

Catherine – Brooklyn, New York

Welcome to Williamsburg (Brooklyn) everyone!

Lauren – New York, New York

Our little brother had the idea of ‘Danson’ shoes’ (i.e. Ted Danson’s face on the soles of tennis shoes). It’s something we’ve cracked up about for a long time so finding this picture was made all the more funny to me.

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So the word of the day is mirror.  Of course I could talk about mirroring in acting classes or how much time I spend looking in the mirror (ha!), but I just can’t stop thinking about how awesome Arcade Fire’s interactive Black Mirror video, from their album Neon Bible, is. You can control how you hear the song as well as which instruments come into the song.

You also have to check out Arcade Fire’s The Wilderness Downtown interactive video, where you plug-in your address and they incorporate your house into the video through Google Maps! It’s pretty hi-tech

Still interested? The Neon Bible interactive video is pretty cool too.

Click on the links and play around a bit. It is Saturday! It will be fun, promise!

“Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words.

"Ring" by Arnaud Lapierre - Cubic Mirrors Playing with Perceptions in Paris

Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior.

"The Largest Disco Ball" by Michel de Broin

 Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits.

"Mirror Box" by Yayoi Kusama

Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values.

The MirrorCube Tree Hotel in Sweden

Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.”

-Mahatma Gandhi